I'm really worried and a bit confused.?

My best friend's husband had a mive heart attack and stoke last week. He is paralyzed on his left side. He was unable to talk. In fact, they wanted his wife to "pull the plug" Well, surprise, surprise, he did it on his own and is breathing on his own ever since. She refused to do it. Today she called me and told me that they transferred him to another hospital because he had chest pains. They found out that he has a hole in his heart and it seems he was born with it. The one thing she was really baffled about and frankly, so am I, is that she was holding his paralyzed hand while he was sleeping and she said he was in a very sound sleep. Well he squeezed her hand tightly and then lifted his arm but as soon as he woke up, he couldn't move it. It was like if his subconscious was working, but his conscious mind would not. Is this possible? This is not in my field of expertise. Granted I worked in Geri-Psych and took care of stroke patients, but they usually came to me when they were alert, well somewhat, and at least able to move their limbs, Never have I seen this. Does anyone who works with stoke patients know what I'm talking about? I've known this man longer than his wife did. He was my brother's best friend and he was always like a brother to me. I want to be able to give his wife some answers because the fool Doctors aren't saying anything helpful to her. Can anyone give me some clue what's going on? Thank you..

If I don't accept a friend request on Yahoo! Messenger, how long is that request still active?

What I mean to say is, that a person I've knew in past sent me a request, but I don't want to be so unkind and ignore the request, but I don't want to accept it either. So I had the idea to let the request "open"... and now, I would know, if this request lasts so long as I accept or ignore it, or hat this request something like an " active countdown" (for example 72 hours)

What baby name do you prefer?

I really don't like any of those names very much to be honest. I only like Mary. It's cute like Mary Rose :) xxxx

Lust at a young age, complex confusion.?

Ok, so Im 17 still a virgin, I like male & female. Also I just graduated high school. I'm curious on how to ask my ex if she'd wanna mess around? Recently well like 2 months ago we broke up because I was leaving high school & she's a year younger so she was staying. But I was still going to be close by because Im going to a community college but we always had these phases were we wouldn't even talk to each other, until I spoke up.Anyways she cheated on me twice, but not like intense just popped kissed other girls. One of them because she was drunk and the other one I don't know. We kinda were together for a long time since 11/12/08 but we broke up 3 times and took breaks like 2 months or less then got together. The first time I got together with her, I said to myself I'm going to wait until the guy of my dreams comes & then dump her. But likewise that never happened and eventually I fell in love for the first and so did she but I wasn't her first. There had always been drama since the beginning, to now the ending. When we broke up we'd stayed 2 hours together, me asking her why can't you answer my question? Which was why does she treat me bad? Like everyone could tell..and I like practically gave her the world. Before we broke up we were getting more intimate then before. I was liking that because I felt so comfortable, and you know us human beings :D ha. Anyways! she leaves hints here & there, & so do I. What I wanna know is, should I ask her? Can we mess around for the last time? I don't wanna go all the way, even though that lust. but there is something that wants me to just play with her...should I do it or not? Dont' tell me oh no it's bad because this & that she played you. Tell me as if YOU were in the situation.And if its a yes, then how should I ask her?if it's a no, how do I get rid of this feeling?

Books You'd Recommend...?

You might try "Time for Patriots", which is mainly set in the late 18 Century, and has a number of historical characters, such as Washington, Franklin, and Mozart. Author is Thomas Hamilton, published 2008, 203 pages hardcover. I understand it is also on Kindle, but I've never seen that. Has some subtle humor. No vampires!

10 dpo, faint BFP, ectopic symptoms?

So hubby and I have been trying to get pregnant since the holidays upon his return home from an overseas deployment and yesterday I got a very faint second line on an hpt after lots of symptoms. (lots of creamy cm, sensitive to smells...my stomach turned when i walked into the kitchen while hubby was preparing burgers...something about the smell of raw meat and pickle juice didnt sit well.. moody, odd appetite, fatigue, bloating, sore and veiny , etc) However, ever since 7dpo, Ive been having really frequent tugging pains(not unbearable, just uncomfy) on the lower right side of my abdomen off and on also making the right side of my lower back hurt really bad(the back pain is worse than the tugging cramps) I do know that this is a symptom of ectopic pregnancy since its only one one side and I never experienced the tugging pain except in my mid abdomen at about 6-8 weeks during my first pregnancy. I'm not considered at risk because I'm 23, healthy, non smoker, never had any sort of infection or any kind of artificial hormone stuff (we are nfp users), but I'm still very worried. My doctor cannot see me until this coming week this time to do bloodwork and such, but is this a symptom that is common to healthy pregnancies as well? I'm planning on seeing my Dr regardless, I just need some info to get me through the weekend and either put me at ease or let me know that I'm not just being paranoid.

Whats a MUSE fans favorite song that isn't by MUSE?

i love almost everything that MUSE has done because their music is amazing. i also like some of MCR and some of oasis like "don't look back in anger". what are some other good songs that muse fans love?